Your stormy, emotional reaction to the good news told by a partner, has huge impact on your relationship. It sounds obvious, because certainly you and so happy about the success of your partner. But if at that time you’re busy checking instagram on your phone, then your reaction is unlikely to match his excitement with the news, which he shares.
Scientists call such positive feedback “capitalization” and say that it is even more important than your support in difficult for the boyfriend times. In their opinion, the capitalization enhances intimacy and relationship satisfaction in a couple, as well as reduces the risk of separation.
How do you react to ur boyfriend’s promotion affects your relations much more than how do you encourage him in the period of problems at work.
In general, now saying “in trouble and happiness” takes on a slightly different hue: a genuine delight of the large and small victories of your boyfriend not only inspire him to new achievements, but also will ensure your happy, strong and harmonious relationships.